As the sperms and eggs unite to form a zygote, it may be xx for female or xy for male. If the sperm carries an x gene while the egg carries a y so, the zygote will be male. However, if the sperm carries an x gene while the egg carries an x so, the zygote will be a female. This is what we called fertilization. After fertilization, implantation would happen. Until it became a fetus then after nine months as the fetus will be delivered by the mother, baby will goes out in this world. Infancy rate will be counted. Responsibilities will be added. Everything in his/her ecology will be changed.
In every 5 seconds, one baby will be born. This is the infancy rate in the world. That means in every hour, there would be 720 babies born. Consequently, there are a lot of people in the entire world. These are the reasons that there are a lot of changes that happen in our community and well as our selves. The change may bring drastic effect in our lifestyle. Likewise, the effects will make us violate our power or accept this as a gift.
In every person accounts a lot of responsibilities of being oneself, father, mother, son or daughter. He/ she may accepts this with neither full of heart nor ignore it without any explanation. One of the scriptures that I have read goes this way.
The man who lives in the fear of God is conscious that "the eyes of the Lord are in every place, beholding the evil and the good” (Prov. 15:3), therefore is he conscientious about his private conduct as well as his public. The one who is deterred from committing certain sins because the eyes of men are upon him, and who hesitates not to commit them when alone, is destitute of the fear of God. So too the man who moderates his language when Christians are about him, but does not so at other times, is devoid of God's fear. He has no awe-inspiring consciousness that God sees and hears him at all times. The truly regenerate soul is afraid of disobeying and defying God. Nor does he want to. No, his real and deepest desire is to please Him in all things, at all times, and in all places. His earnest prayer is "Unite my heart to fear thy name" (Psa. 86:11).
I wonder why some mothers abandoned their son/ daughter. Most especially if the baby has a defect. The common answers why they abandoned them because of destitution life. So, why keep on making love where they can’t afford to give life on that small blood in her womb? How pity they would be? Indeed, lots of report over the radio, television, newspaper depicting irresponsible parents.
Earlier, I mentioned about the word baby with defects. In our country, we have less opportunity in taking care with type of baby since we don’t have that technology. Not like the western country. But what we have is never ending love and care those we able to shower to our beloved child. We really tend to offer this as a gift from heaven and a test of faith. A firmer trust in God's sufficiency. Whatsoever or whomsoever a man most trusts in is his "god." Some trust in health, others in wealth; some in self, others in their friends. That which characterizes all the unregenerate is that they lean upon an arm of flesh. But the election of grace have their hearts drawn from all creature supports, to rest upon the living God. God's people are the children of faith. The language of their hearts is, "O my God, I trust in thee: let me not be ashamed" (Psa. 25:2). and again, "Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him" (Job 13: 15). They rely upon God to provide, protect and bless them. They look to an unseen resource, count upon an invisible God, lean upon a hidden Arm.
Responsible parents will accept anything, everything about their child. No matter on what he is, or who he is. This is because the love of parents is bond with a lot of sacrifices, faith and perseverance.
I would like to share to you the story of Dick and Rick , who happens to be my all time hero. No one can beat their tandem in struggling lives as one.
from tet. Thank you so much.
